Actually here, I'm clicking on the white balls and getting the option and the meshes make it ghost.
The chairs in the original screen shot and tables were indeed set up like limbs. I don't get why they would even do that. I can't. Oddly enough, though, the table set was part of the room, I was able to delete it rather than just making it invisible

. In order to use this room, I'm going to have to. import the furniture in the screen shot